First found this on the B&N Nook Store...
It's the winner of the 2010 Nebula Award for Short Story and available in entirety on Tor's website.
There is also a Free Audio Version.
That's...interesting. It didn't really move me like it seems to have some of the commenters, but I never really got why people are so desperate to fit in with groups, be it fitting in with the mainstream or fitting in with the anti-mainstream. Just do what you want and like what you like. People like confidence, if you're confident in what you enjoy you'll find people who appreciate you on your own terms without having to let them influence your behavior.